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Couples & IntimacyIntimacy for Couples: Connection, Communication & Play
Great sex is built on trust and talking. Here's how to keep things close, curious and fun.
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How to talk about what you want
- Pick a calm moment, not in the middle of sex.
- Lead with appreciation: "I love when you…" before "Could we try…"
- Try a yes / no / maybe list together. It makes new ideas less awkward to bring up.
- Check in during sex with simple questions like "More? Slower?"
Keeping things exciting long-term
Schedule intimacy without guilt (anticipation counts), plan date nights, try a new setting, or introduce a toy you choose together. Novelty is one of the most reliable ways to reignite desire.
Toys made for two
Best couples' vibrator
We-Vibe Sync 2
Worn during sex, it stimulates both partners and adjusts to fit your body.
- App control, including long distance
- Adjustable fit
- Waterproof silicone
Best wearable
Dame Eva
A small wearable that stays in place between the labia during partnered sex.
- Stays in place on its own
- Discreet size
- Body-safe silicone
Best long-distance
Lovense & app-connected toys at Lovehoney
Control each other's toys from anywhere, which suits long-distance couples.
- Pair through an app
- Wide range of styles
- Sales on bundles